Fran Heller’s cover story “Coping with pregnancy loss” (CJN, Sept. 26) was wonderfully informative and heartfelt.
It’s great that Heller included resources for people in search of a support group or professional support.
Over 20 years ago, I had five consecutive first-trimester miscarriages. Support during these tragic losses is so important from family and friends. Fortunately, I never gave up hope and was blessed with a beautiful son and daughter, just 17 months apart.
One area that was not mentioned in the pregnancy-loss article is support from an employer. These days there are more laws related to pregnancy-related illness. I experienced the horror of having physician employers who expected me to have a miscarriage and a D&C one day and return to work the following day. I ended up leaving a job that I loved because there was absolutely no compassion for the devastating losses I was experiencing.
And, guess what? I was employed as an ultrasound technologist scanning pregnant women every day!
Source: http://www.clevelandjewishnews.com/articles/2007/11/08/community/letters_opinion/friedman1109.txt
Miscarriage stories of loss, hope and help. It's always devastating to experience a loss. It can cause you to feel alone, isolated. There's no 'right' way to feel - a range of reactions are possible and normal. In addition to the grief you may feel, your body will be undergoing some profound hormonal adjustments, which may make you feel very emotionally volatile. If you have had a miscarriage, take the time to understand better why these occur and why it is not your fault.
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